tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7135691537000430475.post5799230193202175320..comments2022-03-24T21:49:21.362-07:00Comments on The Best Life I've Lived: Following my brain through the lossMelly Ohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14104817918416654142noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7135691537000430475.post-12405629683063280852011-09-15T13:11:00.925-07:002011-09-15T13:11:00.925-07:00I'm sorry babe. Know how much people know you ...I'm sorry babe. Know how much people know you love them. Depression is powerful and very deceitful. Don't blame yourself or play the "what if" game--- it can be endless. Continue to be YOU- a great friend, a great Mom, and awesome wife... and know we love you tons. I'm sorry for your loss... but praise God that your family is healthy, well, and together.007https://www.blogger.com/profile/11802066408357155275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7135691537000430475.post-74801886037569099102011-09-13T09:59:34.726-07:002011-09-13T09:59:34.726-07:00Oh man Mel. I have know people who have made this ...Oh man Mel. I have know people who have made this same tragic choice. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I know it is hard and we can't always understand why they feel this is the only option they have. Remember that you did love him and even if it doesn't seem like they knew it, deep down under all the pain they knew you did. They had just been blinded by the thick veil of sadness that depression lays over us. I have been in places in my life where I have contemplated this decision, mental instability and non coping runs strong in my family, so let me tell you once a person is so far into the rabbit whole most of the time they cant even begin to want to find their way out. I understand not being able to help but think what could I have done, it's all part of the process. All you can do is what your doing, feeling and getting through the grief with your loving family, awesome husband, and special little babies! We love you guys and are here for anything you need! Hang in there girly.Ashlie https://www.blogger.com/profile/08381153879421962826noreply@blogger.com