To me this means picking and choosing what to adjust in my child's behavior. For example, I am a big believer in letting her explore the world in her own perfect way. It's no way I would have explored it, and that's just the point. Why is my way THE way? It's not!
Of course I don't knowingly let her get herself into an unsafe situation or explore cherries by grinding them into the carpet, I think you see my point.
So the following video was taken moments ago during 'yogurt exploration hour'. The result is I am, right now, watching her in the tub and getting yogurt out of her hair, her nostrils and off her belly...and I couldn't be happier for her!
(I can't figure out how to imbed the video here, so please follow the link to my youtube page!)